Unmet health needs. Older people who are being neglected may start to suffer from preventable ailments, like bedsores or dehydration.
Unexplained injuries. Victims of elder abuse may have repeated and/or unexplained injuries that they are hesitant to have treated or talk about with other people. Such injuries might include bruises, abrasions, welts, burns, missing hair, or broken bones.
Unkempt appearance. Someone experiencing mistreatment in later life may show uncharacteristic signs of poor hygiene and personal care. An older person who was always conscious of maintaining a presentable appearance may begin appearing disheveled, often wearing dirty clothes and/or having unwashed hair.
Strained relationships. When someone’s personality changes in a negative way around the people who are providing their care or in control of their assets, it could mean the relationship is unhealthy and perhaps abusive. An older person may come across especially withdrawn, anxious, or frightened in the presence of the person(s) who is abusive or neglectful.
Uncharacteristic social isolation. Elder abuse victims may seem to change from someone who routinely enjoys interacting with other people to someone who stays away from their usual social engagements and activities.
Loss of interest and/or appearing remote or withdrawn. Elder abuse victims may seem unusually depressed, detached, and/or confused. They may seem to be heavily medicated or sedated.
The topic is a one that is difficult to discuss or even think about, but elder abuse is a world-wide problem that crosses all cultural, gender, social, and financial boundaries. The problem is far from new. The mistreatment of elders has existed as long as all other forms of abuse and neglect. But people are living longer now, which provides more opportunity for abuse in later years. As a result, elder abuse has become more prevalent than people might expect.
There’s a common misconception that elder abuse usually takes place in facilities referred to as "nursing homes” and inflicted by uncaring strangers. The truth is that elder abuse is very likely to happen at home. It also is very likely to be perpetrated by people who are supposed to love and care for the older folks they are mistreating.
Many victims of elder abuse depend upon their abusers for life’s basic necessities… like food and shelter as well as physical and personal care. For this reason, countless cases of elder abuse go unreported. Many older people do not tell anyone they are being hurt or neglected because they are too embarrassed, ashamed, or frightened to talk about it. Some may think their claims will not be believed. Others may not even recognize that they are being abused. If you are being mistreated, DO NOT hesitate to tell someone you trust.
It often takes someone to step in from outside an abusive environment to put an end to the ordeal. Signs of elder abuse can be quite subtle, however, and they are not always easy to identify. In addition, something that might appear to be a sign of abusive may not be once all the facts are known. As unappealing as it can be to get involved in such a difficult situation, suspected instances of elder abuse should not be ignored.
If you think you know an older person who may be in an abusive situation, do not hesitate to step in and get involved. You may regret it if you don't at least ask a few questions. If there seems to be no immediate risk to the person’s health or life, try speaking with the older individual privately if he or she is lucid and able to communicate. Let the person know you are bothered by what you have witnessed and would like to help.
Adult Protective Services (APS) are available in all 50 states to receive and investigate suspected cases of elder abuse and neglect. Most states also require physical and mental health professionals to report suspicions of abuse. If a situation appears to be urgent and someone is in immediate, life-threatening danger, always call 911.
Financial changes. Older people who are being abused or taken advantage of may become a source of financial funds for their abusers. They may stop paying their own bills or may begin living far below their financial means. They may start doing without some items they require to live full lives, such as glasses, dentures, or hearing aids. Pieces of jewelry and other personal items of worth may suddenly disappear.
The following symptoms can be signs of elder abuse in certain circumstances, but they may also be caused by aging-related conditions or diseases. Some may even be side effects of medications common in later years. But, when there is no other reasonable explanation for these symptoms, they could signal the presence of abuse and/or neglect in an older person’s life.